Abusive husband's addictions.

Dear At the Fence:

This writer wants the details of her situation kept offline. So the writer can identify her answer here are some bare bones: Married, husband in rehab, long history of abuse and problems. Question sent in 4/18/03

Your husband has more than a problem with addiction. He is also abusive. He may be able to stop drinking, but he needs to address his abuse issue, also. This will not go away, and may even get worse. Abuse is not caused by alcohol. If he will not get help with the abuse issue, the relationship will continue to go down hill.

As to your trying to end it before, you are not alone. Most women leave many times before they finally stay away. Don't give up on yourself. You're not walking away from a marriage, you are escaping abuse. Even if your family has given up on you, you can still get out. Do this for your children, if not for yourself.

Best Wishes

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